爱情和事业，你选择哪个？

有时候我会觉得很矛盾。
如果你的男人是个生意人，
他有时候会因为忙于生意而忽略了你，
你会怎么办？
背后的女人是要体谅吗？
我知道事业对一个男人来说是很重要的，
但你的女人，你的家庭就没那么重要吗？
当然我也不希望男人因为女人而把工作做得马马虎虎。

最近听到一句很有意思的话，“成功男人的背后一定有个很能忍的女人。”， 而不是我们经常听到的 “成功男人的背后有一个伟大的女人”。对我而言，伟大的女人并不能代表她很能忍。所以，能忍的女人才是强者。试问有谁能够耐得住寂寞，在你的男人忙于工作时，你不能只是呆在家，等他回来；或则一直闹着你的男人是不是不爱你了，为什么不理你等等理由。你一定要有自己的生活，打理好家里，当你的男人回来时端上一杯水，让他感受到家的温暖，所有压力都会消失。而不是当男人拖着疲惫的身子回家，换来的是女人的责骂，女人的疑神疑鬼，这样男人都会不想回家，而造成有第三者出现的问题。所以，女人真的要学会体贴，信任你的男人，这才会让他的事业成功，然后回到家也能舒舒服服的。因为他知道他不用担心他的女人。

可是，女人啊，还是会希望自己的男人能够多陪陪她。就算再忙，也希望男人可以抽空回她的讯息，或则偶尔的撒娇，说你想她了。女人不奢望你能秒回，但有你的讯息，真的能让她安心。

所以啊，学着互相体谅吧。生命很短暂，要珍惜对方。男人，我会好好的珍惜你，体谅你。希望你也能够珍惜我对你的好。

Random

This blog is dying~ Other than my UMK post, Gardenia post and movie/drama review, the rest of the posts are like no view at all. LOL!! Never mind, I still want to post something randomly just because I am bored now. *syok sendiri*

Something that makes me crazy recently:
- junk food especially potato chips
- social media. I spent too much time on it and I can't helped. Had tried to uninstall but it doesn't last long. LOL
- him of course ^^ and not just recently but for quite sometime already. I just hope to meet him everyday and probably request to move in to stay with him. However, this is not going to happen unless we get married. My family is very traditional one..

*Yawn* I am so sleepy right now.

Lots of thinking recently about my work, relationship, etc.

- I have been thinking to do a business, but nothing came into my mind.

- Go on for a long vacation, but where's the money and the leave approval?

- I want to go Paris so much!

- My colleague is watching YouTube at the workplace right now.. shhhhhh! I guess he really likes basketball.

- My boss just told us a funny joke when he went to renew his passport. He said if you want to be fast, walk in front of "certain" people (sensitive), eventually they will just push you forward.. LOL

- 2.5 hours more to go back home. Should I go for a body check up?

- I still found this guava drink very weird, but m drinking it.. ahahahaha perhaps would like to try everything that you tasted before.

- Will you ever contact me if I went missing?

Girl's mind that changed within second.

All right, done with the messy random post. Bye!








 

It happens, but it doesn't exist

I am not sure if I am happy.
I think I have lost myself.

The world is so fake, I am fake.
It feels like I am living in a paper towns.

What do I want in life?
Money? Love? Health?

I love you at first.
and I think I am still loving you.
Did you see the word "think"?
Yes, I doubt myself now.
I still think about you,
or maybe the past of you.
but it's blur,
there's nothing in my mind.

I called your name everyday.
but I can't feel the pounding heart.
maybe I din't see you for quite sometime,
but I am sure I did not forget you.

Home, is where I live,
but I don't feel like going home.
I just want to stay somewhere else,
alone.

The conversation is connected but disconnected,
if you understand what I mean.
Who am I?
I wish you can tell me.

Work, the robotic routine.
but I don't see myself mastering anything.
perhaps I do not like the job,
or this field.
I am annoyed, I am bored.
I wanted to leave, but I have no where to go.
I just need a living fees.

Passion? Interest?
Who are they?
Do I have one?
I am not sure.

Healthy body, is no longer with me.
I am suffering from a goddamn abdominal pain.
It's so pain that I can barely walk when it's back.
Scanning, urine test, ultrasound or whatever test,
but the result said I am healthy.
only myself know the pain.

This post is so random but it is true.

It happens, but it just doesn't exist.

Hello Friday.


*****

A few hours later, I can feel the pounding heart when I look at your photos.
The feeling never gone.
I miss you, my dear.

Next few hours, I received your text..
aww that feeling is back!!!